Family meals bring big rewards
Although it may not be a grand event, it’s important for families to have meals together. Both young children and teens benefit from shared meals.
“Benefits of eating together make family mealtime a tradition worth pursuing as often as possible,” said Susan Mills-Gray, nutrition specialist with University of Missouri Extension. “Having raised five children, all who were active in school organizations and sports, as well as community youth groups, I fully understand how busy life can be for a family. Our family made the commitment to have at least one meal together daily and if a meal became a challenge for a particular day, then we gathered for a late evening snack around our kitchen table,” she said.
Research finds that shared meals offer big benefits for your children and teens:
- Offers a feeling of belonging and adds a sense of security through routine
- Everyone has the chance to share about their day, parents can find out more about school events and their children’s friends, and parents show the importance of spending time together
- Teaches table manners, social skills, food preparation, family values
- Young children benefit from exposure to adult conversations and teens thrive in a secure routine, which may help improve their studies
- Reduced risk of depression and suicide especially for female teens, who are at a high risk of eating disorders
- Lower rates of smoking, alcohol and illegal drug use
- Less likely to be sexually active, get into fights or to be suspended from school
- Offers routine and consistency, which brings a feeling of security
Parents should remember that they are responsible for what food is offered and when, while children and teens can decide how much to eat or even if they will eat. Parents should make mealtime pleasant by avoiding discipline issues and eliminating distractions or interruptions — no cell phones, TV or music. Eat with your children whenever possible and if you can’t share a meal, share a snack together. Mills-Gray adds, “If you’re too busy for a family meal, you may be too busy!”
For more information contact your local MU Extension Center or Susan Mills-Gray at firstname.lastname@example.org.
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Last Updated 12/10/2009