Feature Article
Keeping Fun in Our Relationships
Kim Allen, Human Development Family Studies, College of Human Environmental Sciences, University of Missouri Extension
Christina Crawford, Human Development Family Studies, College of Human Environmental Sciences, University of Missouri Extension
Remember those first days of falling in love…the
endless talks, the long walks and feelings of happiness?
Sometimes we get in a rut and have to remind ourselves
of the importance of keeping fun in our relationships.
Having fun with your partner may not seem as important
now as it once was. Life can get very busy, especially
when trying to balance work and family, but that is why
it’s so important to make time for fun in your life.
Having fun can be a release from all the pressures and
stresses of life. This relaxed and playful time between
partners is important for developing long-lasting bonds
between two people.
Research shows that couples who spend time together
doing things they both enjoy are more satisfied and
happy with their relationships than those who spend more
time in separate activities. Having fun together plays a
key role in healthy, happy relationships because it
allows time for couples to just relax, to be themselves,
and to just focus on being together. And spending time
together doesn’t have to be expensive. Need a reminder?
Try one of these or come up with your own ideas for fun
this valentines day:
Rent a movie and watch it together.
Go to a matinee movie at the theater.
Have a picnic at a local park.
Go for a walk.
Watch a favorite television show together.
Play a board game or a game of cards.
Have a candle-light dinner at home.
Go to a local park. Swing, play basketball, or just sit together on a park bench.
Cook a meal together.
Visit a museum or historical site.
Check your local newspaper and visit the Chamber of
Commerce to find out about events or attractions
in your area.
When you’re having fun together, whether you are going out to a movie or staying in and watching a television show, you are creating positive connections with your partner, which are so important for long-lasting, happy relationships. For successful relationships, it is important to have more positive than negative interactions with your partner. Set aside time with your partner when you can relax, forget about any stresses in your lives, and just have fun together.
Last Updated 05/06/2008
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